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Negotiation,
song and tracey
from an EOS Workshop
Who – Who’s responsibility is this anyway?
- It’s the responsibility of anyone who wants to play…both parties
involved.
- If the Dom doesn’t think it’s important, the sub should.
- Speak up, for both your safety sake.
What
– What do you need to cover?
- You need to cover everything important to you! Do other handout.
- As you get to know someone however, what you cover will be less
and less because you will be doing it all the time…whether you know it or
not.
When
– Do I have to do this every time we play?
- Casual play partners should do this before every time they play.
- Those in a committed relationship do it nearly everyday, in one
way or another.
Where
– Where do I need to negotiate?
- This depends on the other W’s…especially the Who.
- A new play partner, you probably want somewhere rather quiet so
that the two of you can really talk.
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Someone you have played with before, you can probably get away with
something a little less quiet as the negotiation will probably
not take as long.
Why
– Why am I doing this?
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Safe Sane Consensual
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Chances are a lot of people will find negotiation as foreplay before
a scene. This foreplay may take place days before
the actual scene…but don’t you think it’s
pretty hot to talk so openly and intimately to another person
about your wants and desires?
You also do this so that the two of you are mutually satisfied;…isn’t
that what this is all about? The more you put in to
it, the more you will get out of it!
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